Exercise 2

In the relative reality everything is relative and interdependent. Social and individual values meet, mix and sometimes clash. Means and actions are tried and used and evaluated.
If we see ourselves with the eyes of others we are in the relative reality. The subjective side is certainly relative. What we love this week we might hate the next.
The objective side is also most relative. We can do many different things in many different combinations and still be in the sector of accepted normality.
The borders between sectors are relative, socially and individually. There are some strict rules, and also a lot of ambiguous ones.
In order to live in this complex environment we could use communication and openness.
If we do not we are at risk of causing damage. That is obviously happening even when the intentions are the best, as in health care, schools, police and social work and everywhere else.

Reconstruction 2

Reconstruction of the true man is a mind process. If you would try to use bodily means as sticks and carrots, it will probably fail. Mind deals with truth, so information, communication, argument, analysis and openness should work.
Mind is also the scene for feelings and for energy tornadoes. They make the situation more complicated. But they should never lead.
Instead, we should try to find our deepest will, and then let it be supported by reason, feelings and energy.
Our mind is in constant change, as new information and new impulses are coming incessantly. At the same time, mind can be very stable. In order to reach a certain goal the person must be quite headstrong.
Everything is interdependent with everything else. Even the hermit is supported by the general interdependency. This is vital, but it should not be over used. The normal relation between people is positive neutrality. In a few places like prisons, the relations are not neutral, but these places should be as few as possible.