Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Dogs are different 2

In a mind analysis, the difference between thoughts and feelings is quite basic. Feelings are seen as ever present and often disturbing and negative. This is contrary to some spontaneous reactions, where feelings are respected very much. Even negative feelings are respected. Sometimes we consider our anger or uproar to be more justified when our feelings are strong. This is not the view of Buddhist psychology, however. Anger is not considered a good or justified reaction.
One way to see the difference between thoughts and feelings, and also see the possible falseness of feelings is to think about the reactions of a dog.
In certain groups the communication takes place with very few symbols, but if we want to make ourself understood we need to follow the rules of language.
Ordinary communication with words, gestures, intonation, eyes and so on can be interpreted in many ways. Misunderstanding can happen even in small long time communities as families and work places. Indeed, in some families the lack of understanding increases over the years till a divorce is a fact.
The risk of misunderstanding is bigger for all more external individuals and groups.
What can we learn from this? That communication should not be taken for granted. Even if we know what we mean, others might not get the message.
In adverts and popular music a positive emotional message is bundled with the eventual content of thought. The emotional aspect is quite important.

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