Aftermath 2

A basic rule for having a nice life is to accept time, and let the past be past. But sometimes we can not leave the past and sometimes we do not want to leave the past. It is very good to use experiences in order to avoid faults and mistakes in the future.
Our mind is slow in processing our memories. A natural process is going on all the time. The result of this process will be suffering or joy. We are not aware of the process, but we can influence it if we try to.
The problem - which has caused suffering during the history - is the distinction between improving and destructing. if we can not make that distinction, we are likely to hurt ourselves rather than to improve the world.